If you’re tossing and turning in bed at night thinking to yourself, “Is he into me?”, we’re here to answer your question!
Is he into me? 7 Obvious signs he likes you
Omg! I totally understand how frustrating it can be trying to figure out whether a guy is genuinely interested in you or not. It can literally drive you crazy, lol. So here are some pretty obvious to help you tell whether he’s interested.
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1. He actively plans activities or dates
If you’re wondering whether or not a guy likes you, one of the obvious signs is if he’s actively trying to spend time with you. This could mean that he’s asking you to hang out, planning dates, or even just suggesting activities that you can do together. He’s probably also doing things like texting you first or initiating conversations.
Basically, if he’s putting in the effort to make sure that you’re spending time together, it’s a pretty good sign that he likes you
2. He always replies to your texts fast
You know you’re special to him when he’s always got his phone in his hand, ready to reply to your texts ASAP. Whether you’re asking him how his day is going or sending a funny meme, he’s always quick to respond. And if you’re ever worried that you’re being too needy or clingy, just take a look at how fast he replies to other people’s texts. If he’s taking five minutes to reply to them but only takes seconds to reply to you, it’s pretty clear where his priorities lie.
So if you’re wondering whether or not he likes you, just check his response time. If he’s got those lightning-fast reflexes when it comes to texting you back, chances are good that he’s into you.
3. He asks if you have a boyfriend
If he’s interested in you, he’s going to want to know if you’re available. He might not come right out and ask, but he’ll find a way to work it into the conversation. For example, he might ask if you’re seeing anyone or if you’re single. Or, he might try to find out if you’re dating anyone by asking if you have a boyfriend. If you’re not sure whether or not a guy likes you, this is a good sign to look for.
4. He holds eye contact longer than normal
Now, this doesn’t mean that they’ll stare at you for an uncomfortable amount of time. But if you notice that they tend to linger in your gaze a little longer than usual, it’s a good indication that they’re interested in you. Of course, there are other signs to look out for as well, but if you’re trying to figure out whether or not someone likes you, paying attention to their eyes is a good place to start.
5. He angles his body toward you in the room
If he angles his body toward you in the room, this means that he’s subconsciously trying to create a physical connection with you and is interested in what you have to say.
Another sign that he’s into you is if he mirrors your body language. This means that if you cross your arms, he’ll probably do the same thing. It’s a way of saying, “I’m like you, we’re on the same page.”
So, next time you’re wondering if that cutie from your class is into you, take a look at how he’s positioned himself in relation to you. Chances are, he’s giving off some pretty big cues!
6. He bites or licks his lips a lot
Now, we’re not saying that you should make a move if he starts licking his lips like a hungry dog. But it is definitely an indication that he’s interested. Just remember, if he starts showing these signs, it doesn’t necessarily mean that you should make a move. But it definitely means that you’re on his radar.
7. He always follows through
If he says he’s going to call you at 7 PM, he’ll actually call you at 7 PM. No flaking, no excuses. He’s a man of his word, and that’s one of the things you like about him. Of course, there are other signs that he likes you too. He might compliment you often, or try to make you laugh. He might even go out of his way to do things for you. But at the end of the day, it’s the little things that matter, like keeping his word.
6 Signs he secretly wants you
Sometimes, a guys is shy and won’t express his feelings for you directly. So here are some subtle signs to tell that he’s interested.
1. He doesn’t mind you invading his personal space
If you’re wondering whether or not a guy is secretly into you, one of the more obvious signs is if he doesn’t mind you invading his personal space. This could manifest itself in a number of ways. For example, he might not object to you putting your hand on his arm while you’re talking, or he might not move away if you accidentally bump into him.
Sometimes, a guy will even allow you to invade his personal space deliberately, as a way of flirting with you. So if you’re standing close to a guy and he doesn’t move away, it’s a pretty good sign that he’s secretly into you.
2. Your friends notice
Another obvious sign that he might secretly want you is even your friends start pointing it out. If they start saying things like, “Oh, he’s always looking at you” or “He always wants to know what you’re up to,” then chances are he’s got a little crush.
3. He’s super protective of you
It’s like he’s your own personal bodyguard! He’s always there to make sure you’re safe and sound, and he always has your back, no matter what. He’s always quick to offer help if you need it, and he’s always looking out for you. If you notice that a guy is being extra protective of you, it’s a pretty clear sign that he’s secretly into you.
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4. His face changes when you mention his ‘competition’
For example, if you mention that you think another guy is cute, does his smile dim a bit? Or, if you bring up a guy that you’re interested in dating, does he start looking jealous and territorial? If so, then it’s pretty clear that he’s secretly into you and doesn’t want to see you with anyone else!
5. He asks you tons of questions
He’s always asking you questions. About your life, your job, your hobbies. He’s interested in everything you have to say. And he remembers the details from your conversations. He asks follow-up questions and is genuinely curious about you and your life. He’s not just trying to make conversation, he’s trying to get to know you. And that’s because he’s secretly into you.
If a guy is interested in a girl, he’ll want to know everything about her. So if he’s constantly asking you questions, it’s a good sign that he’s into you.
6. He notices the little details
For example, does he always remember what you’re wearing, even if it’s just a casual outfit? Does he ask about your day-to-day life and seem genuinely interested in what’s going on with you? Does he remember your birthday and astrological sign even though you’ve only mentioned it once. If he’s doing these things, it’s a pretty clear sign that he’s got a bit of a crush.
Why is he so into me so soon?
One day, you’re swiping through Tinder and you see a cute guy. You swipe right, and he messages you back almost immediately. He seems really into you, and he wants to go on a date ASAP. You might be wondering, “Why is he so into me so soon?” Here are a few possible reasons:
- He’s just really enthusiastic about life in general and he wants to share that with someone.
- You’re freaking amazing and he’s just mesmerized by you.
- He’s trying to impress you because he’s heard that women like confident men.
- He’s looking for a fling and he thinks you might be up for it.
- He has low self-esteem and he’s desperate for validation from someone, anyone.
So, why is he so into you so soon? Only he knows the answer to that question. But whatever his reason, it’s always best to tread cautiously when entering into a new relationship. Get to know him better before you start getting too serious. Otherwise, you might end up getting your heart broken.
Is he into me or just a flirt?
How can you tell if a guy is into you or just a flirt? Well, first of all, it depends on how well you know him. If you’ve only just met, then it’s probably too soon to tell. But if you’ve been friends for a while, then there are some definite signs you can look for.
For example, does he go out of his way to talk to you? Does he remember things that you’ve told him? Does he ask follow-up questions or seem genuinely interested in what you have to say? If so, then there’s a good chance he’s into you.
But if he doesn’t seem particularly interested in getting to know you better, or if he constantly interrupts you or tries to steer the conversation back to himself, then it’s likely that he’s just a flirt.
So, the next time you’re wondering whether a guy is into you or not, pay attention to how he interacts with you and see what kind of vibe you get from him.
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Is he into me or just being nice?
When it comes to deciphering whether or not someone is into you, it can be tough to read the signs. Sometimes, they’re so obvious that it’s like a neon sign flashing in your face. Other times, though, it’s hard to tell if they’re just being nice or if they actually reciprocate your feelings. If you find yourself wondering whether or not someone is into you, here are a few things to look for:
- He/She makes prolonged eye contact
- They ask whether you have a boyfriend or girlfriend
- He/she laughs at your jokes (even when they’re not that funny)
- They find excuses to touch you
- They’re nervous when talking to you
- They go out of their way to do nice things for you
If you see these signs, there’s a good chance that they’re into you. But if you’re still not sure, the best way to find out is to ask them directly, literally.
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Ways guys hint they like you
Guys can be pretty bad at communicating their feelings, which is why it’s often up to us women to decode their behavior. Here are 20 common ways that guys hint they like you, even when they don’t say it outright:
- He mirrors your body language. If you catch him copying the way you’re standing or sitting, it’s a sign that he’s trying to subconsciously connect with you.
- He always finds reasons to touch you. Whether it’s “accidentally” bumping into you or brushing your hair out of your face, he’s looking for any excuse to physically connect with you.
- He asks you a lot of questions. He’s interested in learning everything about you and is probably hoping that you’ll do the same for him.
- He laughs at all of your jokes…even the bad ones. He just wants to make you happy and enjoys seeing you smile.
- His pupils are dilated when he talks to you. This is a physical reaction that he likes what he sees!
- He’s always around when you need help, whether it’s with your homework or moving something heavy.
- He goes out of his way to make you laugh and always wants to know how your day is going.
- He fidgets a lot when he’s around you or seems nervous in your presence.
- You catch him staring at your lips when you’re talking.
- He includes you in his plans even if it means changing his own schedule.
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There you have it! I hope after reading this post, you won’t have to constantly wonder “is he into me?” anymore. Wishing you the best of luck on your journey to finding love : )